5. You’re Miserable

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In this world’s economy, the more you give, the more you stand to lose. For those who follow Jesus, though, this equation is turned upside-down.

God holds rewards and benefits for our generosity to one another, promising “it is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35). If we become stuck in our selfishness as takers, we miss out on the overflowing goodness we could enjoy from God’s hand.

Are you feeling divided from your partner today? Do you feel exhausted from craving and chasing after more and more, only to be disappointed? Have you lost the romance and laughter you used to enjoy with your spouse?

Has a wall of resentment or bitterness grown between you? Do you feel negative and critical instead of grateful for the gift of your marriage? Does your conscience feel uneasy every time you’re helped or shown generosity by your partner?

We can’t dodge the truth that selfishness is sin. James 1:15 reminds us that when we’re tempted to take, that temptation “gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” If selfish choices and attitudes rule in our marriage, we suffer the “death” of unity. Affection. Closeness. Trust and commitment. Our sin has the power to crack the foundations of our home.

God wants to fill your life and your relationship with joy. Today, he’s inviting you to receive his forgiveness and a filling of fresh love for your spouse. He’ll energize you to step up and share as a “cheerful giver” (2 Corinthians 9:7).

As you take on Jesus’ humility and heart to serve, you’ll build trust and put love in action in your marriage. God will do his beautiful work of drawing you together as one.

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